If I say something to you that you do not want to hear, or if you are not ready to hear it, you will reject it immediately. If I act in a way that violates laws, rules and authority, I will be punished and in the extreme, imprisoned. No matter what I say, no matter what people say, there will always be conflict, there will always be anger, denial, and ignorance. Never will it be right what you do, what you say, how you live, how you think, how you experience. Another person will always .
You have always NEEDED someone else as a REASON to live. That reason can disappear at any moment. As soon as you make something other than your OWN being a REASON to live, you insult yourself. You humiliate yourself. And this kind of humiliation is sustained. You have degraded your life. You have lost your dignity, your self-respect. The void that lives in each of us can never be filled by another. Filling that void with others is a pathological, selfish thing to do.