Soft healers make festering wounds

Most “helpers” do not dare to bring that truth. Not because they do not know it, but because they are afraid of losing you. Afraid you will get angry, walk away, or stop liking them. So instead, they give you what you want to hear: a little recognition, a little comfort, a little hope for a better future. But it is exactly that which keeps you stuck.

Soft words keep the ego warm.

And as long as the ego lives, the wound stays closed, festering deep inside.

You keep coming back for more validation, more sessions, more conversations. And they keep earning from your pain. And you let yourself be deceived and misused.

True love does not let you spin around in that circle. True love tells you what is real, even if you collapse because of it. It rips off your mask and makes you look in the mirror you have always avoided. It dismantles your story until nothing remains but silence and space.

There, in that emptiness, the miracle happens. Not through what someone gives you, but through what falls away. No method, no step-by-step plan, no price tag – only truth.

Jesus never asked for money in exchange for truth. He said: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for they shall inherit the Kingdom.” By this he meant: whoever dares to be empty, whoever lets go of ego and attachments, will discover the deepest freedom. The Kingdom is not a place or promise outside yourself, but a state of being – the freedom that arises when you stop chasing, stop playing victim, and stop lying (for the ego always lies). Freedom comes when you turn inward instead of outward, when you stop searching outside yourself for love, answers, and dependence. All of that springs from fear – fear of being alone. Fear of being who you truly are, not what you have made of yourself.

In today’s world, everything revolves around money. Even online it has become a marketplace, where coaches, gurus, and self-proclaimed teachers offer their services as if they were products. They promise peace, love, healing… but almost always it is about profit.

❥ That is not love. That is business.

Young people are getting lost in this jungle of promises. Depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts are on the rise. Therapies, pills, sessions often do not help, because real healing cannot be bought – it does not come from a course or treatment.

A self-appointed “healer” or “teacher” places themselves above you, as if you are not whole and they can make you whole. This creates dependency and feeds the ego on both sides, and so also in the world. These “healers” ask for money, trust, and time, but what they really sell is often an illusion. They present themselves as the key to your liberation, while that key has always been inside you.

❥ Real healing does not come from outside.

It begins with honesty toward yourself, with seeing through the ego, with accepting that you are both the maker and the healer of your own life. Healing is ending the escape and seeing through the ego’s game.

In my life, I have met people who brought me light when I was in darkness, and darkness when I was too much in the light. They did not call themselves teachers, coaches, or therapists. They asked for nothing, had no titles, and sold nothing. They simply said: “Welcome home, inside yourself. You are already whole, you are already free. You do not need to buy or become anything – here, you may simply be yourself.”

That unconditional love cannot be bought. It is like the sun – free and inexhaustible.

Know that love and truth are not for sale. The most beautiful moment is when you can say deep inside: “I thought I was the psychiatrist, but I turned out to be the patient.”

We are the makers of our pain. We are the healers and the ones in need of healing. We are everything ourselves… no victim, no savior, simply human.

You are alone, you were born alone, and you will die alone. It is up to you to realize that you are ALL ONE.

❥ You are the ALL.

That is the Truth no one can sell you – but that you already know deep inside…

Rani Savitri